Ty and the Glow Baby


At the risk of you all thinking that I am a mean mean mom, I just could not resist the temptation to show something to you! This is the funniest (and saddest) video clip ever ๐Ÿ™‚ !

Shortly after Ty was born, my friend Lois mailed me a baby shower in a box. She even included homemade cinnamon rolls that were AWESOME! (Still hoping for that recipe Lois ๐Ÿ˜‰ )! Also in this box was a baby gloworm for Ty. I was so excited because I loved my gloworm as a child.

When Ty was only a couple of months old (corrected), I got out his glowbaby for him. As soon as the bug lit up, he cried. I thought it was a fluke. We put the bug away but have brought it back out several times over the last 16 months. Each time, he takes a few days before acclimating. It got buried in the toy box and he hasn’t seen it for awhile. (I have mentioned this issue a few times before if you recall).

Today was a lazy day in our household. All FOUR of us managed to get the stomach flu this weekend. NOT a fun Father’s Day. At one point, Jim was in bed barely moving, I was loosing every meal of the last several days in the bathroom, and Tanner was jumping up and down next to me insisting on his turn for the toilet. I ended up using the bathtub to “hurl” (as Jim say’s) so that Tanner could use the toilet. Meanwhile, Ty is sitting watching all this because I didn’t have time to shut the door. Ty’s diapers were beyond gross and Jim and I were taking turns handling that because both of us feared we wouldn’t make it through a diaper change without ending up on our knees. I know…more info than you ever wanted…sorry…

Anyhow, so Jim and I had a flu hangover today and we sat around and watched Little House reruns (at my insistence…not Jim’s idea of a good day ๐Ÿ™‚ ). Ty got into his toybox and next thing we know he is sobbing his heart out. Jim went to check on him and started laughing. Sure enough…Ty found that glow baby and was crying. He has a strange fascination with this bug. He bites it, tugs at it, plays with it and is just fine UNTIL it lights up and sings and then he starts crying. When the gloworm stops singing, he quits crying and then does it all over again. Doesn’t it seem he would avoid the toy? He has many toys that light up and sing. I don’t get it.

This evening I got out the video camera and tried to catch this phenomena. I was not disappointed. For the record, while it may appear that I was purposefully scaring Ty with this gloworm, I promise you…he was doing this on his own before I got involved and continued to do it until I put the glow baby away tonight (mommy couldn’t take it anymore). I have never seen Ty afraid of ANYTHING except this little bug. Is it fear? It almost looks like it makes him sad. This has gone on since he was a tiny baby and I have no idea why this little bug affects him so consistently. It is a sad sad cry but he gets over it very quickly. Earlier this afternoon, I tried conditioning him to it. I sat and rocked and kissed the glowbaby and then showed him how sweet the little bug is. He tried to be brave. He gave me a big smile and tried his hardest to cowboy up. Next thing you know his smile couldn’t stay put and the crocodile tears started coming. The third clip I have in the line up (the longest one) demonstrates a bit of this. The first go round he really tried to be brave but he couldn’t hold out. I couldn’t keep teasing him with it after that because it was making me too sad. He went back on his own for several more rounds though until I put it away. He is a glutton for punishment it seems.
I have no idea what to make of this. After viewing the video, feel free to register your opinion as to what is bothering him so. I can’t figure it out. Go to the video links page to see the clips. Funniest home videos, here we come ๐Ÿ™‚ .

Note to Lois – thank you for the entertainment! Ty will grow to love this bug in time I am sure! If he doesn’t, we will get hours of fun in the years to come watching these clips. His future wife will LOVE it. LOL!


12 responses to “Ty and the Glow Baby”

  1. I think we’ve visited this idea before but here it is again…do you think the gloworm aversion could be from NICU/medical memories? Sam was on a bili light for a couple of weeks and he looked like a glo worm. I bought him one just for the fun of it and he has never shown an interest. I know it’s far fetched…but, hey…you never know. BTW, not that you don’t already know it… Ty-man is absolutely amazing.
    Love, Jennifer

  2. That is the sweetest little capture ever.
    Dont you wanna just scoop him up and kiss him?

    These are the times you really wish that they could talk so you could ask…..” whats da madder precious?”
    Thanx for the fun clips Doni, he is sooo adorable!!!
    ~Shayla~

  3. It’s sooo cute.. and pitiful! Nathan came home on Sept 8th at his 35 week mark.. and my grandmother bought him a glo worm for Christmas…. its been one of his favorite toys! We use it to get him to smile for pictures!
    I wonder if he would do the same with other toys like it? They make a Winnie the Pooh one that lights up also?

  4. Watching Ty tore my heart. His cry came from so deep inside him it looked as if there was something was painful. If you believe he can see angels, he may, in his fight in NICU seen other things. I came up with the same idea as Jennifer C. but was too embarrased to mention it. You have one brave boy there. There could not have been a better mother to raise him.

  5. So sorry you all were sick again — no fun! There are some stuffed animals that Carter has that say a prayer or sing “Take Me Out to the Ballgame” that he does NOT like. He says NO! NO! NO! if we squeeze them and has been known to throw them across the room! Then there is the talking Elmo and Cookie Monster that he thinks are hilarious — go figure!

  6. That was soooo cute! Its gotta be something about the glow worm that does something to him. Sage loves anything that dances and sings. He stands up and dances to bear and the big blue house doll and elmo. I do agree with you it must have been something early on when he was in the NICU that just reminds him of those hard times. Thanks for sharing! Jere’

  7. Awww!! Thanks for sharing those clips with us. Sometimes we just don’t have any idea what makes our children get upset over things. I know with my boys as babies they all see to have some toy that made noise or something that made them cry. Ty is adorable and his smile is infectious!
    Denise

  8. Now that I think about it Seth had a couple toys that talked/sang he didn’t like either! The main one was a little bear that sang “Take me Out to the Ballgame” but he’s grown to like those toys that used to scare him.

  9. My son does the same crying thing when he hears pots and pans bang together. Of course he still opens the cabinets and pulls the pots and pans out and bangs them….he just cries the whole time ๐Ÿ™‚

    Those videos are adorable!

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