{"id":154,"date":"2005-03-23T12:29:26","date_gmt":"2005-03-23T19:29:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/x.jimanddoni.com\/?p=154"},"modified":"2005-06-04T14:12:53","modified_gmt":"2005-06-04T21:12:53","slug":"perfect-persacution","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jimanddoni.com\/?p=154","title":{"rendered":"Perfect Persecution"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My heart is breaking today and I have to admit at being beyond angry.  The Terry Schiavo case has Jim and I breathing fire.  I have hesitated to post about this because I will admit up front, I am in a spit nails kinda mood over this particular subject so audience be fore warned.<\/p>\n<p>As I sit writing this, a woman is being inhumanely starved to death.  Since WHEN did feeding a person become labeled as ?heroic life saving effort??  Feeding tubes are NOT classified as life support.  At certain stages in ALL of our lives, we are dependant upon some else to feed us.<\/p>\n<p>Jim and I are very strong anti-euthanasia supporters.  When people start talking ?life of value? to me I start getting the shakes.  NO ONE has the right to determine life of value.  That is up to God.  I am tired of people pretending to be compassionate with murder on the heart. <\/p>\n<p>I realize that often people argue that it is not ?fair? to expect a person to live a life of suffering and that euthanizing is compassionate.  In many cases, I truly understand the heart of this issue.  I have watched two grandparents die of cancer.  It is an unmerciful death.<\/p>\n<p>We, are <strong>not<\/strong> the authors of life and death though.  It isn?t our decision.  What makes us think we know better than God when a person should leave us?  <\/p>\n<p>In the case of Terri though, I would strongly defend that THIS particular case is <strong>not<\/strong> a case of compassion<em> (even if reasons of compassion WERE grounds for euthanasia which I would still argue)<\/em>.  Let?s review what I understand to be the facts.  <\/p>\n<p><strong>First<\/strong>, while ONE Dr. did testify years ago that she was in a vegetative state, MANY Dr.s have since submitted evidence that she is NOT.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Second<\/strong>, Jim and I always look for smoke around these fires.  Suspicious to anyone that Terri?s husband is living with another woman whom he has two children by?  Very devoted husband.  Did you know that medical scans showed countless bone injuries before her collapse many years ago and an investigation was NEVER done to determine how she got these injuries?   Then there is the money?.why didn?t her good old wonderful supportive husband divorce her before his adulterous affair I wonder?  Follow the money trail.  This isn?t hard to figure out.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Third<\/strong>, I listened to a Dr. yesterday who examined Terri personally.  He mentioned that children with severe Cerebral Palsy who are being EDUCATED in our public schools systems today, are in WORSE condition than Terri. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Fourth<\/strong>, I listened to a nurse who was with Terri for a year say that she found an insulin bottle covered in the trash and several obscure injections sites on Terri?s body.  She was found crying, trembling and shaking.  All this directly after Terri?s husband walked out of the room after 20 minutes of private time with her (this was years ago).  This nurse went to the police and was fired for circumventing order of authority.  Figures.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fifth<\/strong>, her husband is on court record for trying to deny her medication to help with a urinary tract infection years ago which would have resulted in her death.  He has been trying to ?off? her for years!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why are people so sympathetic to the one who has so much to gain through her death and leave so little compassion to the victims in this situation?<\/strong>  I say victims because both Terri and her family are being inhumanely punished.  They simply want to love and care for her.  How do they stand to benefit other than loving their child???  Yet the courts and portions of public opinion oppose them?  Why?????  <strong>Is our society so demoralized that we continually fight to kill the innocent and protect the guilty? <\/strong> This goes so far beyond reason I don?t even have words for it.  <em>(And yes this does lead to my thoughts on capital punishment?I?ll save that for another posting).<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I keep hearing talk that her husband has the right to make this decision for her.  First and most importantly NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO STARVE SOMEBODY!!!!!  ALL people need to eat and it is not an outlandish rescue to feed some one.  Even if this were a removal of true life support issue, a man that abandoned his wife for someone else many years ago should not be allowed to make these decisions.  Let?s not pretend this man is a devoted loving husband.  The evidence clearly proves he is NOT.<\/p>\n<p>A couple of years ago I bought a book called ?<a href=\"http:\/\/www.christianbook.com\/Christian\/Books\/product?item_no=23000&#038;netp_id=244888&#038;event=ESRCN&#038;item_code=WW\">The Perfect Persecution<\/a>? by James R. Lucas.  When I first read it I was horrified (very difficult to read) and I thought the author had gone overboard.  To summarize, the story was about a culture where babies are aborted up to 30 days after birth.  Their organs are saved for donors.  The story also details Bioethical Review Boards in the nations hospitals that would determine with each critical injury what the quality of life potential is for each patient.  Those determined to have little potential for quality of life (in their opinion) are given drugs to put them in a coma and they are then transferred into a ward of the hospital where they are kept alive for organ donation.  <\/p>\n<p>Seemed way too unrealistic for me and I was a little aggravated at how far the author took this because it seemed fanatical.  Then I read Randy Alcorn?s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/1576737519\/002-6127960-1460056\">ProLife Answers for ProChoice Arguments<\/a>.  Throughout this book there are countless references to discussions of these issues.  To name just one example, bioethicist  Peter Singer who was a professor at Princeton University has authored, ?On Letting Handicapped Infants Die,? in <em>The Right thing to Do:  Basic Readins in Moral Philosophy, ed. James RAchesl (New York:  Random House, 1989), 146.<\/em>   He is\/was teaching at one of our nations prestigious university?s and he writes in support of a 30 day window for abortion AFTER a full term birth.  I quickly realized that James Lucas was not being fanatical.  There is a logical end to the slippery slopes we now travel and he was not missing the mark.  In the case of Terri Schiavo, we even managed to include torture under the guise of ?compassion?.<\/p>\n<p>This issue (and several others) feels personal to Jim and I right now.  The same people who are fighting to murder Terri are likely people who would have fought to euthanize Ty as well.  Our son WAS on full life support.  Based on the medical facts, there would have been more reasons (by my estimation) for people to support pulling Ty?s life support than Terri?s!!!<\/p>\n<p>There is one particular conversation that took place with me and a nurse while Ty was in the NICU that haunts me to this day.  I don?t believe I mentioned many details about our conversation at the time because so many nurses were following Ty?s postings and I didn?t want to highlight this issue at that time.  I will share it now.<\/p>\n<p>When Ty was a few weeks old, I had a phone call at 4:00 am from a NICU nurse.  She told me that never in her career had she had to rescue a baby the way she just had with Ty and she thought I needed to know that.  He was not breathing for at least 2 minutes she said.  I was an emotional wreck.  When I hung up with her I realized I hadn?t asked all the questions I needed to so I called her back <em>(like I was really going to sleep after that?)<\/em>.  Anyhow, in talking with her I made the comment <em>?I don?t know how my child is going to survive when he keeps having these extended periods without oxygen.  I feel panicked about what this may mean to him and what kind of brain injury this will likely result in?<\/em>.  This was her reply:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>?Your child has a bilateral hemorrhage.  With what I have seen and his hemorrhages, I don?t expect him to have a very positive outcome.?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This said in a tone that I felt implied I was unrealistic for even hoping for him.  I was furious with this nurse.  A few days later I was moved to great compassion for her though.  Two nights later I sat in the NICU at 9:00 PM with Ty as his nights had been worse than his days.  I wanted to see if there was any merit to what the nurse had said as I was tempted to think she didn?t have a lot of experience and had over reacted to events that I was actually seeing almost daily.  <em>(By my observation, Ty had FAR more severe apnea episodes than any other baby around him during the nearly 13 weeks he was in the hospital). <\/em> That night, I was holding Ty and he went blue to purple to black.  Nurses were yelling down the hall and the code box was opened.  Ty?s sats dropped to 12 before I walked into the hallway.  I felt I couldn?t watch my child die and I didn?t think they were going to be able to save him that time.  At that moment, I understood her.  I understood her panic.  I understood her venting.  I understood why she said the things that she did.  Ty had scared her and she was going through her own emotions after having saved the life of my child.  I will be forever grateful to her for her life saving intervention.  Someday I would like to go find her and place Ty in her arms and say this is the baby you had no hope for.<\/p>\n<p>My faithful web readers now know what she likely does not.  She was wrong.  This little boy has survived wonderfully.   <em>(Again, for the record, has she been correct, my son would be equally precious to me)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This brings me back to Terri.  I know first hand that medical professionals cannot predict value of life.  Even if Ty had severe cerebral palsy, his life would be precious.  Would he suffer?  Yes.  Would God allow beautiful significance in that suffering?  Yes.<\/p>\n<p>It is time for us as a nation to stand up and fight on behalf of life!  On behalf of the innocent.  On behalf of those who cannot speak on their own behalf.  <\/p>\n<p>Personally, I am praying that God will allow Terri to utter even one word before she leaves us.  I want those that have supported her death to know that Terri?s blood is on their hands and they are guilty of torture and murder.   At this point, I don?t believe they would even allow Terri to speak on her own behalf.  Too many reasons to keep her quiet now.  Now more people than just her husband need her to die&#8230;imagine what she might say to being starved to death.   I wish President Bush would send in Federal Marshalls RIGHT NOW.  Good grief we will have years and years of discussion about a GUILTY person on death row but we decide to kill an INNOCENT person and we starve her before the appeals are finished??????   <\/p>\n<p>Friends and loved ones, I truly have to sign off now.  If I say another word I will be at risk of getting terribly ugly about this and I am trying to restrain myself at least a bit.  My heart is so burdened by these issues?they hit so close to home.  I am going to go hold my baby now and thank God over and over again that everyone who cared for Ty did all they could do to intervene on his behalf.  Apparently, few in the world have this kind of love.<\/p>\n<p>For more information on this case, or to help make YOUR voice heard?.see <a href=\"http:\/\/www.terrisfight.net\/\">Terri?s site<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>P.S.  If you think I am on the war path on this issue, you don&#8217;t EVEN want to talk to Jim about this!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My heart is breaking today and I have to admit at being beyond angry. The Terry Schiavo case has Jim and I breathing fire. I have hesitated to post about this because I will admit up front, I am in a spit nails kinda mood over this particular subject so audience be fore warned. 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