{"id":243,"date":"2005-08-11T11:04:52","date_gmt":"2005-08-11T18:04:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/x.jimanddoni.com\/?p=243"},"modified":"2005-08-11T11:04:56","modified_gmt":"2005-08-11T18:04:56","slug":"son-up-to-son-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jimanddoni.com\/?p=243","title":{"rendered":"Son Up to Son Down"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;.that&#8217;s how I work lately \ud83d\ude42 .<\/p>\n<p>Melissa E., Jennifer C., and John F. have all been concerned about my whereabouts lately &#8211; so to you three &#8211; I am fine &#8211; no worries \ud83d\ude42 !   Just simply overwhelmed and busy.  At the risk of sounding whiny (thought I am not writing this with that intent), I will detail what has been occupying my time lately:<\/p>\n<p>1. Ty<br \/>\n2. Ty<br \/>\n3. Ty<br \/>\n4. Ty  (this goes on to 1120)<br \/>\n1121.  Tanner (he is about 1\/3 the maitenance by personality and age so I will only go up the scale to 1600).<br \/>\n1601.  I am leading a discipliship bible study on Thursday nights on the Life of Paul.<br \/>\n1602. I am starting an adult sunday school class in September and have been working on several mini class models (will be doing several classes in 6 to 8 week blocks).<br \/>\n1603. I am responsible for the church finances right now as my Aunt is still homebound after surgery.<br \/>\n1604. I am the Administrator of our church&#8217;s celebration committee (anyone want to replace me on this next year?)<br \/>\n1605. Ty is in PT, am starting OT this week and possibly ST soon<br \/>\n1606. I listened to 20 phone messages this morning &#8211; most of which I have not returned yet (oldest was a week old)<br \/>\n1607. Every day I have between 160-200 emails.  I do not get that many a day but since I don&#8217;t have a lot of time to answer email (though I do read it daily) &#8211; they build up on me and I always seem to have about that many waiting on replies each day and obviously the build up happens because I don&#8217;t get through many of them in a given day.<br \/>\n1608. This week did another media interview for Charisma magazine (should come out Oct &#8211; Dec issue).<br \/>\n1609.   Possibly doing 60 minutes in the next few months.<br \/>\n1610.  Working on Snowflake DVD (To my fellow snowflakers &#8211; I am about 1\/2 finished \ud83d\ude42 .<br \/>\n1611.  Very anxious for BSF to start back up in a few weeks but that is another weekly commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Now I realize that most people could write an even longer list especially adding school functions and sports ect.  I didn&#8217;t write this out to complain.  Only to say that because of a. my easily overwhelmed personality type and b. my inability to multi-task; this list is rather enormous for what I am actually capable of.  Thus the reason I have been behind on my postings.  I am not feeling stressed particularly though because I am actively involved in ministry right now and I am loving that but I have a lot of other things that just aren&#8217;t getting done.  I used to do quite a bit at night after the boys went to bed but lately I have not had the energy.<\/p>\n<p>Another reason for my delay in posting is&#8230;I&#8217;ll be honest&#8230;.the feeling violated issue.  I am not going to continue to harp on this but I will say that I really didn&#8217;t appreciate people that I don&#8217;t know choosing to comment in such judgemental ways in regards to parenting my sweet kids.   I have had a few more comments that did NOT get posted and I hope I am sending a message to those that are truly stalking my site.   I have developed precious friendships through this website and the huge majority of people that frequent this site I welcome with open arms &#8211; there is this teeny tiny minority though that I would like to block access to and I would if I felt like managing passwords (but I don&#8217;t).   So alas, I guess I just have to grin and bare it and delete their comments.  In wouldn&#8217;t be so bad if they were debating issues unrelated to my children (of which there are plenty) but don&#8217;t trespass upon my family or you will be effectively calling this tiger mother out.    In the past I always thought it was weird that so many celebraties won&#8217;t post about their children online.    I, am not one of notarity of course but since this site has had quite a bit of traffic, I have faced some similar dilemas on a much smaller scale.  I am starting to have much more appreciation for why people in the public eye try to move their family into very private circles.   Guess I just needed to vent about that for a minute.  I am not going to give this any more time though because it isn&#8217;t that interesting \ud83d\ude42 .   As it does tend to kill the passion in writing in regards to my children though &#8211; I thought I would be truthful about it.  I don&#8217;t intend to let this frustrate me indefinitely though.  As I have said before, I do have control \ud83d\ude42 .  I simply delete comments I don&#8217;t like and I care not about censorship \ud83d\ude42 . <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;.that&#8217;s how I work lately \ud83d\ude42 . Melissa E., Jennifer C., and John F. have all been concerned about my whereabouts lately &#8211; so to you three &#8211; I am fine &#8211; no worries \ud83d\ude42 ! Just simply overwhelmed and busy. 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